Pettalk

Discussions »Behavior

109068

Playing favorites?

Lolli on Behavior - Tue, November 13 2007

First, a little explanation: Lolli lives with a family of four--mom, dad, and two daughters, 17 and 21. I'm Rachel, the oldest daughter, and I'm in college right now. I made this profile as if Lolli were my dog, but technically Lolli is my mother's. We had lost our previous dog, Lexi, in April, and Lolli was a Mother's Day gift for my mom. So technically, I guess I should be identifying myself as Lolli's "sister" instead of "mom." Or maybe a second mom, who knows.

Anyway, my mom has ALWAYS wanted a Yorkie, so Lolli is very special to her. While I'm away at college, Lolli provides my mom with a lot of company during the day. Lolli follows her around the house and takes naps on her hap. However, any time I come home from college, it's very obvious that Lolli favors me. She follows me everywhere and always sits with me. In fact, if I have been up and about, she will get up off my mom's lap to come lay with me once I do sit down. She brings her toys to play with me. She comes when I call her, but will run from my mom.

I can tell it really hurts my mom's feelings that Lolli doesn't like her as well as me. My mom is absolutely crazy about Lolli, and gets so disappointed when she picks me over my mom. It especially breaks her heart when Lolli gets up from my mom's lap to come sit with me instead. She'll say sadly, "Lolli likes you better than me" or "Lolli, why don't you like me?" I love little Lolli to bits and really enjoy cuddling up on the couch with her, but I wish I could get Lolli to quit favoring me and give my mom more attention!

Does anyone have any suggestions? It's not like I'm going to just push Lolli away when she comes to me, but I wonder if maybe there's something my mom could do to become Lolli's new favorite.

Rebel on Nov 13 at 07:29 PM

69198

Maybe Lolli just misses you when you are gone and wants to be as close as possible to you when you are home.

Colton on Nov 14 at 07:39 AM

110755

My parents' dogs do that with me and I haven't lived with my parents in years...long before they got the dogs. I think Lolli does this because you are "different" than her everyday routine. Whenever I go to my parents for the day or weekend, both of their dogs will follow me around or move from dad's lap to mine if I sit down. I don't know how to fix this, but maybe trying to explain to your mom that Lolli doesn't like you better than her, it just that you are "new" and she wants to spend what little time you are home with you getting "new" lovins'will help her feel less sad.

Lolli on Nov 14 at 10:00 PM

109068

Thanks for the suggestions, guys!

Search Classifieds:
GoGo
Call 317.444.4444 to place an ad
What you need to keep your pet happy and healthy.
Indiana_paw_logo
IndyPaws.com is proud to be partnered with Indiana Proactive Animal Welfare to bring you a wealth of pet care, health, and adoption information.
Visit Indiana Proactive Animal Welfare

Use of this site signifies your agreement to the Terms of Service and Privacy Policy/Your California Privacy Rights, updated August, 2006.
Copyright © 2007 The Indianapolis Star Media Group. All rights reserved.