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Dont care for my new brother.

Ellis on Behavior - Wed, October 03 2007

O.k. So Mom decided to bring home a new puppy, so now I have a little brother. (profile to come soon) He came from the Humane Society and seems to have a good temperment. He is only 8 weeks only so very much a puppy. But to say the least I dont care for him at all! I pretty much ignore him all the time and I get jellous when my parents give him any attention. They are still give me 110% of the focus so I cant be feeling left out, in fact Mom feels guilty that the puppy is no getting as much attention as she would like to give him. I am not aggressive towards him, I just could care less about him. I dont want him in my moms lap, I dont want her to pet him, I dont want him around at all. I bark at mom when she pets him even just a little. Mom is folloing all of the pros adivce about how to intigrate a new dogs, but I am protesting. I am not doing anything distructive, I am just not the same. Will I get over this in time? Deep down I want to play with him, but I am pouting at the moment. Really I am pouting!!!!

Max on Oct 03 at 01:46 PM

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Ellis, I was the same way when my little brother came to our house. I just ignored him. Now I like him, we are buddies and we play together. Just give it a little time. It's fun to have a brother to play with, even if he is a pest sometimes and steals the toys.

Ellis on Oct 03 at 06:58 PM

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Thank Max. Anyone else out there have any advice?

Beverly on Oct 04 at 07:03 AM

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Well, I didn't care for Minnie at first either. I would growl and nip at her when she tried to lick my snout. Finally, I decided to like her and now we play together. Mom was so relieved!

Minnie on Oct 04 at 07:05 AM

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Beverly loves me. She's a good sister. You can look at the pics on my profile. One is of Beverly nursing me after my eye surgery. Ellis, you will be a good big brother once you get used to the little guy! It just takes a little time.

Kirby on Oct 04 at 08:32 AM

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I don't particularly care for Lola, either but she's here to stay. You'll get used to the little annoyance, they CAN be fun once in a while...

Pearle on Oct 04 at 08:33 AM

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I'm STILL pouting. (Lola is my baby sister).

J-Lo on Oct 04 at 01:07 PM

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I just got a new little brother too! I didn't want one either. He's been a pain and he plays a little too much for me, but he's okay I guess. It's been two weeks now and we're starting ro be friends now I think. Give it time Ellis! And hey - I've been getting more treats than usual out of the whole deal because mom and dad are trying to train Jake and don't want me to feel left out! Keep us updated!

Ellis on Oct 08 at 04:45 PM

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Thanks for all the great advice. Turns out my Moms sister (guess she is my aunt) fell in love with the little rat and now he is staying with her!

Snoopy on Oct 08 at 05:07 PM

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Dear Ellis...
My Mom read your post to me about your dilema with your little brother. Having a little sister myself...I know how you feel. When Mom brought Peytrah home I thought it was kind of neat until reality set in and I realized she was here to stay. See Mom has friends that bring their puppies over to play with me but they are only here for a day then they leave. So I thought Peytrah was leaving too. Needless to say I was wrong. For a while I didn't want much to do with Peytrah at all. I had been the top dog in my house for 4 years until Mom brought home a little pup that was still wet behind the ears. Let me tell you she had some big ears too (he, he, he). Any hoot for a while I didn't have much to do with Peytrah. She was always tryign to play with me but I would just walk off and go lay down somewhere, anywhere she wasn't. Mom & Dad gave both of us plenty of attention but anyone that knows me, knows I'm an attention hog so I wasn't happy about any of the attention the new pup was getting. Finally after weeks of Peyrah's desperate attempt to make friends with me, I gave her a chance. Granted it wasn't love at first site but we're like 2 peas in a pod now. Several months ago Peytrah got loose while Mom was bringing in groceries. She was gone for over 24 hours and we had no idea where she was at. Mom posted flyers, called the local vets in town and even the surrounding towns incase she was hurt and someone found her and took her to a vet. Meanwhile I sat the whole time she was lost and moped around because I really had lost my best friend in the world. The day we found her was the happiest day in my life! I didn't know if I was ever going to see her again. I know it might seem right now like you and your brother will never be friends but trust me...it will work it. Sometimes it just takes a little time. People don't make friends instantly and neither do us dogs, cats, rabbits...you get the picture. Being a pack animal myself, I think your whole thing with the new pup is you feel like your position in the pack is being threatened. Once pack order is re-established I think things will take a nice turn in a good direction. Please keep us posted on how it works out.

Ellis on Oct 15 at 01:27 PM

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super Comment Snoopy!!! Thanks!!!!!

Rex on Oct 16 at 04:48 PM

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Much with what Snoopy said, I was going to point out that they usually recommend giving it a good MONTH for everybody to acclimate. By that time, Ellis will figure out that the puppy's not going anywhere, so he'd better just chill out! :)

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