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I'm a bad parent...

Brad on Training - Fri, May 16 2008

...or so it feels. It has been brought to my attention that Boomer may have developed a bad habit, and I didn't even notice it. Basically, I had a friend over. He went to pet Boomer (who just finished playing with me) and yes, Boomer bit the poor guy. No, it wasn't a huge monster bite, but rather a play bite. You know the kind, where he doesn't clamp down hardly at all but you can still feel the sharpness of his teeth? I don't mind it because I know Boomer. He never breaks skin or leaves a mark, but it's certainly a little uncomfortable. Let's face it, Boomer plays rough. I like that rough play, and often taunt Boomer with the red chaser which he will pounce on and bite. However, I am feeling rather bad for my friend. He was rather shocked when Boomer just turned playfully grabbed his hand and put his mouth on it. So, the big question is to how avoid this situation from coming up again? The friend was understanding, more shocked than anything, but I don't want Boomer to do that to anyone again. Should I inhibit forceful play? How do I do that? Not like I can squirt him for being playful and using his claws (yes, they are trimmed, so I don't worry) and teeth. Maybe stop play everytime he bites the toy? Then again, maybe I'm paranoid and it's just a one time thing....hopefully. Any comments are appreciated. Thanks.

Scouter-Roo on May 16 at 11:18 PM

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You're not a bad parent... look at me with my Mom.\ Mom's experience with kitties was that if you play rough, they react rough. You have to teach the "ouch" to kitties just like pups. Boomz may not like it but when you play rough and he starts to get out of hand (ie: bites or claws), say ouch or No and walk away from playing. Toys are one thing but humans are another. It's like teaching to use a scratch post vs couch --- ok to bite mousie / not ok to bite Dad. Oh, and good luck... kitties are like little terriers - do what they please.

CatHerder on May 17 at 04:31 AM

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Scouter-Roo said:
You're not a bad parent... look at me with my Mom.\ Mom's experience with kitties was that if you play rough, they react rough. You have to teach the "ouch" to kitties just like pups. Boomz may not like it but when you play rough and he starts to get out of hand (ie: bites or claws), say ouch or No and walk away from playing. Toys are one thing but humans are another. It's like teaching to use a scratch post vs couch --- ok to bite mousie / not ok to bite Dad. Oh, and good luck... kitties are like little terriers - do what they please.

What she said... Play with him as normal, but as soon as there's claws or biting, say OUCH or NO firmly. Not yelling, but not normal speaking tone either. Then walk away and ignore him for 5-10min. Boomer will not be pleased, but he should learn pretty quickly where the boundaries are (they are more easily taught when younger though). Patches was a biter when I first adopted her, but she learned fast that attention goes away when she bites. I can really play rough with Alvin and never get bitten or clawed, but I've also had him since he was 4 weeks old and he was never allowed to learn that type of behavior.

Marci on May 17 at 07:33 AM

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You are not a bad parent. Playing with your pets is never bad. Also, my very late congratulations on your graduation. I agree with the others as to how to get biting stopped.

Oreo on May 17 at 08:47 AM

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You!? A bad parent?! All kitties should be so lucky! I play bite too, I even cuddle bite. When I do, the recipiant walks away from me. I do not like this, so I quit. We kitties are smart and catch on.

Veronica & Eddie on May 17 at 09:05 AM

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A kitty I used to have used to give love-nips. :) It didn't bother me. But then again, he hated everyone outside of our family and would growl and hiss at them. lol I think all of the above suggestions are good.

Elvira on May 17 at 10:16 AM

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Veronica & Eddie said:
A kitty I used to have used to give love-nips. :) It didn't bother me. But then again, he hated everyone outside of our family and would growl and hiss at them. lol I think all of the above suggestions are good.

That sounds like me! I only
"love bite" my Mom - everybody else don't even come near me.....

Amanda on May 18 at 04:29 PM

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Well it's never too late to learn new tricks! I know it's so easy to overlook stuff like this, but hey they will always try to please you.

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