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Advice for a scaredy-dog?

Rachel on Behavior - Sat, April 12 2008

Our puppy, Lolli, is now about 15 months old and for the most part a well-behaved dog. We've gotten her almost completely house trained.

Within the past week, though, her behavior has slowly been changing, and we're getting worried about her. She has begun to act overly frightened by almost everything. She has begun peeing anytime she becomes too excited or scared. She also pees submissively quite frequently now... It does not seem to matter whether we approach her quietly, lovingly, or dominantly, she's begun peeing frequently now (we went from having an accident once every couple of weeks to three in one day!). Even is she does not pee, she has begun shaking a lot. Sometimes, even if we approach her as sweetly as possible, she will shake and curl into a ball or roll on her back, acting completely terrified.

We're at a loss here. We can't understand why her behavior has changed so suddenly. We don't feel like our behavior has changed and cause her to suddenly become so fearful and overly submissive. Any time she has an accident (whether a submissive pee, or getting overly excited or scared), we do not scold her but just clean up the mess quietly.

Does anyone have any suggestions as to why she's started doing these things? And what do you recommend we do to help get her out of this rut? We feel terrible because she seems so neurotic.

Star Hunter on Apr 12 at 06:01 PM

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Do you walk her or exxersize her enouph? You may need to start to socalize her more. I would start slowely. It sounds as if she has lost her confidence. Training may be another good thing. Hope you find the answer.

Rachel on Apr 12 at 06:04 PM

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Oh, yes, I guess I should clarify. :) She goes on a walk in the evening unless it's raining. She usually meets one two or three of the neighbor dogs along the way and responds fairly well to all but the very big ones. We also took her to Puppy Kindergarten, so she's had most of the basic training (although she never really mastered "stay", lol). Thanks for pointing that out, I forgot to mention that!

Ojo on Apr 12 at 06:29 PM

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Part of it is her age. Think of the "terrible twos" in kids and they become attached to their parents. As for the accidents, usually they grow out of those too.

Maredeth on Apr 12 at 06:47 PM

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Ojo said:
Part of it is her age. Think of the "terrible twos" in kids and they become attached to their parents. As for the accidents, usually they grow out of those too.

Yes, I forgot the terrible #2. This is Hunter's mom. I swear every thing I had taught a dog at one time went down the drain. It was peeing in the house, not able to walk nicely on a leash and barking all the time. This may just be a transition. I remember being very frustrated at that time. They come out of it though. It is like puberty with humans.

Lola on Apr 13 at 10:27 AM

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Oddly enough, our Lola who is 11 months, is kind of going through some weird changes, too. She isn't afraid of us, but is very wary of strangers, especially adults. Kids are fine! It's almost like when our daughter was about 8 months old she became velcro baby and thought the world would end without mommy. As a tiny puppy they have no "issues" but as they begin to think for themselves and have likes and dislikes, they tend to communicate them in odd ways. Keep being positive with her, keep a strict routine (dogs thrive on that) and I think she'll come out of this. If not, I'd suggest a trip to the vet to see if she is in any pain for whatever reason. Good luck and keep up updated.

Marci on Apr 13 at 02:22 PM

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Charlie's going through this phase right now. He's been jumpy around other dogs and strange adults. (It seems so similar to teen angst.) Luckily, it doesn't last 10 years! LOL He's been better than Sheila was. I think its because he's a rescue, and far is more of a velcro dog. We keep taking him to places where he can safely be around other dogs (we park near an entrace to a PetSmart, Pet Supplies Plus, etc., and sit in the hatchback. He gets a LOT of rewards for not running and not barking. At FACE today, we sat against the wall, and he sat in the chair with me. He's getting much better. He only barked once.

Dennis on Apr 16 at 01:31 PM

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Needs more socialization at various places. Also your reaction to her is EXTREMELY important. When she is acting scared, what do you do?

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