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CatHerder on My Blog - Sun, March 02 2008

Cops: Sayville man crushed cat to death
BY MATTHEW CHAYES

http://www.newsday.com/news/local/ny-licasts0228,0,7798658.story

A Sayville man who lost his temper and manhandled his girlfriend's cats has been charged with felony animal cruelty after one of them died of its injuries, Suffolk police said.

David Wrigley, of Virginia Court, pleaded not guilty Wednesday in connection with the death of Maddeline the cat, age 8, authorities said. After spending Tuesday night in jail, Wrigley was released without bail following the hearing.

The other cat, Jynx, age 6, sustained broken ribs and other injuries said Sara Sabol, now Wrigley's ex-girlfriend.

Sabol, 27, a hairdresser who began dating Wrigley in December after he came to her salon for a haircut, said she would never talk to him again.

"These cats are my babies. They're not just cats to me. They're my children. I can't forgive this person," a distraught Sabol, 27, said. "And you betray me and you beat my cats, and one of them died? How could I forgive you?"

Police said Wrigley had a testy relationship with the cats.

"The cats didn't take to him. They didn't like him, wouldn't come over and crawl on his lap type of thing," said the Sixth precinct's Lt. Michael S. Murphy. "So -- and this is his version -- he was trying to get them to like him."

The cats sustained their injuries when Wrigley, 24, tried Saturday night to move the cats from behind the bed in the home Wrigley and Sabol shared on Highview Avenue in Selden, Murphy said. When the cats wouldn't budge, he yanked the bed out -- then slammed it back, crushing the cats between the bed and the wall, Murphy said.

"Eventually, he reached under the bed to pull them out, and they wouldn't come, and he grabbed them and squeezed them," Murphy said, "which probably worsened the injuries they had."

Sabol, who wasn't home at the time, came home shortly afterward to find her cats acting sluggish. Sabol asked Wrigley what was wrong with the cats. Wrigley did not acknowledge what had happened and dismissed her suggestions that they bring the cats to the veterinarian, Sabol said.

Wrigley Wednesday said he made a mistake.

"I never meant to hurt anything," Wrigley said shortly after his arraignment in Central Islip Wednesday. "It's bad enough that I lost a girl that I love."

Staff writer Joseph Mallia contributed to this story.

Meeko on Mar 02 at 06:05 PM

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how could anyone do such a thing to poor innicent cats??? And i ask this, how does slamming a bed into them and crushing them by hand help make stronger bonds between each other????? There is something to be said about how we treat our animals.

Ann on Mar 02 at 06:32 PM

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Anyone I date has to realize that my dogs are my kids.....they come first with me.....they are part of the "package". If they don't like my dogs (like who wouldn't?????) then they are not the right man for me, period.

Stacy on Mar 02 at 10:24 PM

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OMG! What a freaking basket-case! He never meant to hurt them now that he is being charged with a felony! I'm really careful about who I date. I don't like to even let someone know where I live unless I know them fairly well. There are too many nuts out there! If a guy doesn't like my dogs or my dogs don't like him, I don't want to even bother.

CatHerder on Mar 03 at 05:03 AM

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The last guy I dated (ended back in '06) was never accepted by Patches. He kept trying to force himself on her and she'd run from him every time. While she LOVES other cats, she's skittish around new people... He'd never listen (typical male) to how I'd suggest to win her over, why I put up with him for so long I'll never know! I've pretty much given up on the whole dating scene now though... It's gotten to the point that I'd rather de-grease my bike (and cuddle with my kittehs) than hang out with any of the guys I've met recently. Sad huh?

Joann on Mar 03 at 10:21 AM

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Stacy said:
OMG! What a freaking basket-case! He never meant to hurt them now that he is being charged with a felony! I'm really careful about who I date. I don't like to even let someone know where I live unless I know them fairly well. There are too many nuts out there! If a guy doesn't like my dogs or my dogs don't like him, I don't want to even bother.

There is definitely a correlation on how men treat pets and how good a partner they will make, I think. BUT it's not only that, but lots of other stuff too. There are so many crazies out there, it pays to be careful. Minnie and Bev are probably pretty good judges of character.

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